Greetings Astridkittie! Welcome to the board!
First off, there is no reason what so ever for you to feel guilty for not "getting over it" yet. Some people wrestle with the lingering afteraffects of being a JW for the rest of their life. That's how controlling and damaging the JW system is.
With all due respect to your boyfriend, he simply can't understand what you've been through. Perhaps you should invite him to browse this discussion forum, and read some of the experiences of other folks, and maybe he'll start to get a better understanding of how deeply the JW "experience" affects people. There is no comparison between being a Southern Baptist and a JW. I know, I'm from Alabama, heart of Baptist country. Many close friends are, or were, die-hard Southern Baptists, and they went through nothing like what I did. We've had long heart-to-heart discussions about our religious experiences, and it takes time for them to begin to understand even a little bit what being in a high control group, or cult, is like.
And don't apologize for sharing your feelings here. There are loads of good caring folks on this board, who have gone through exactly what you are experiencing.
Hang in there. It will get better! And I look forward to seeing more posts from you!
Best regards,
Brandon Bartlett